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An introduction for the The Connection Conference on body work performed by Mal, a certified Tantra Educator, United Kingdom. (By Zeyana Haniffa)
Mal is a British pioneer in the area of emotional release through body work. He has been invited to The Connection Conference in Netherlands, Rotterdam at the Spiritual Centre Djoj, to present, ‘Secrets of Female Sexuality’ on Sunday the 4th December 2011. Mal is a Tantra teacher, born in Sri Lanka and brought up in London in a Buddhist perspective. Who has also studied in various accredited institutes under pioneers & experts earning him CTE certificate, making him the first Certified Tantra Educator in the UK.
Mal along with his wife Sam, operate two beauty salons located in Hammersmith & Fulham and one of the services provided is alternative therapy which is Sexual Healing & Relationship Therapy. Mal is a qualified massage therapist with 20 years of experience in body work and also knowledgeable to 21 different styles of massages . He treats sexual dysfunctions instigated by deeply rooted problems. Mal has helped to release many women from their negative emotional restraints and open a new gateway of self-actualization. As Mal says, “Tantric bodywork is my passion”.
His clients are through word of mouth and many of whom are thousands of women around the world. Mal also travels around the world sharing and teaching, his knowledge on Tantra through presentations & master classes. Despite the harsh social judgment on the sexual arena, Mal has been able to retain his clients through sincere dedication.
Mal’s body work therapy has helped many women better their medical conditions. Overcome physical inhibitions such as sexual dysfunction, insomnia, inability to achieve orgasm, stresses, body aches and vagainism. To improve relationships or increase intimacy with their partners and find partners. And to increase self confidence in women defeating their deteriorative subconscious ways allowing them to enter realm of positive energy.
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. Likewise Mal identifies every woman’s deeply seated problems to work on for elimination and release.
Many of Mal’s clients come seeking a solution to mitigate their mental & physical troubles . Most of their problem triggers can be traced back to their childhood & history that add leverage to their distorted state. Through extensive consultation and relationship building these triggers are identified during emotional release therapy. Some triggers are hidden as memories that the client is unaware of but has been absorbed during the course of time and are found to surface during the therapy sessions. One of the widely found triggers of sexual dysfunctions is childhood abuse and negative social conditioning.
The objective of the treatment is to awaken the Kundalini also called Sexual energy of a woman. And the essence the treatment is female ejaculation, which is the expulsion of negative female sexual energy during emotional release therapy. Despite it’s controversial nature female ejaculation is conclusively existent . And there are supporting researches to state it is not incontinence or a defect of a woman, but only a natural process anatomically capable of every woman. Mal has done abundant research on female ejaculation and its benefits. In addition to his research he has plenty of immediate experience and knowledge on positive outcomes of female ejaculation through his vast clientele.
Mal’s treatment is always practiced in a client approved setting. He says, “Creating a safe platform for this uncovering, releasing and resolving of issues is central to a successful treatment. Each client is my teacher, and I approach carefully and attentively, observing her behavior closely, whether it is positive or negative, and most importantly listening to every communication, be it verbal, non-verbal or energetic.”
It can be seen at any given time Mal exhibits respect towards his clients, empathizing the extent of her problem. Trust is earned through talk therapy and the treatment is paced at her preference.
The process of the treatment begins fully clothed, massaging only exposed area of skin and when trust is built and on voluntarily subjection by the client the treatment moves onto a no clothed only skin treatment. The massage technique used is ancient Thai-Yoga oil based massage and Lomi-Lomi. The stage where the woman moves onto the naked treatment is portrayed as a woman shedding and releasing her negative emotions such as shame, fear, insecurity and learning to embrace herself.
Secrets of Female Sexuality, can be viewed on two perspectives. One being that men are unaware that women are sexual beings who want to be physically fulfilled apart from intimacy and how to fill this illiterate gap and satisfy women. This awareness can stop relationship issues such as sexually unsatisfied women moving onto other partnerships and not reciprocating in existing relationships. The second perspective being, to re -educate the interested public on the ancient art of Tantra on how the ancient practices transports its followers to a positive platform. And informing about the beneficial aspects that have been overlooked and deemed taboo over the years.
The gravity of the unresolved emotions has been acknowledged by Mal and how it’s side effects similarly travel like ripples in a pond in an individual’s life. Oblivious of these parasitic problems individuals who exhibit peculiar traits and downhill decision patterns rub shoulders and walk amongst the daily crowds and stomp the pavements of the everyday mundane life.
Abuse comes in three forms, namely sexual, mental and physical. An affected individual could have been exposed to abuse at any stage of her life. Predominant residers are abuse inflicted during childhood. A once broken mirror will always show its cracks can be metaphorically referred to the abusive past. The prevalence of child sexual abuse in the UK in 1998 and legal measures taken, according to a study conducted by Kooijman and Wattman stood at a staggering 38%. Prior to 1995, the sexually abused was labeled as the accused, giving rise to a grand total of 2380 children under 18 including a 10 year old all in favor of prostitution.
Alongside abuse another perpetrator to happy living is stress. The Information Age we live in is supposed to be a curative and simplifier to exhausting man labor and to free man from stress. On the contrary simultaneously the Information Age has become an ironic event by being one of the sources of stress affecting the quality of life. According to the Mind in June 2011, “British businesses lose an estimated £26 billion each year in sickness absence and lost productivity. With greater awareness and mental health support, they said businesses could save one third of these costs – ‘a mammoth £8 billion a year’”.
Orgasms are essential to neutralize energy and attain inner peace which will in return bring about a balanced and fulfilled life. Orgasms are good for longevity and release of happy hormones such as Oxyticin .Unresolved emotions stay invisible but act as instigators to many unhappy situations we call upon ourselves. The Authors Barry R. Komisaruk, Beverly Whipple, Sara Nasserzadeh, Carlos Beyer-Flores, write in their book, The Orgasm Answer Guide, “In addition to sensory factors, orgasms are often affected by cognitive, psychological, and pharmacological factors – such as distraction, worry, relaxation, medication and the like”. Therefore it is only advisable to eradicate unresolved emotions for a harmonized living.
Further Deborah Sundahl, author and sex educator states, “The negative messages are stored physically, as memories, in the body. By understanding how this “body memory” operates, woman can use a valuable physical technique that can help heal and protect them from all kinds of assaults to their sexuality, from minor to serious”.
The ‘body memory’ stated by Deborah is the same (deeply seated issues) that Mal Weeraratne works on through different stages of therapy.
On research of a sample size of 786 women it was found by Darling, Davidson & Conway-Welch, in 1990, 78.7% of women are able to ejaculate. It is a phenomenon recorded throughout history, studied by various cultures and still under study and have caused a lot of controversy. Mal is able to help cure anorgasmia, the renowned “lack of orgasm”. According to the researcher Raymond Rosen anorgasmia affects 24%-34% women, which is further validated in the Harvard Study of Women’s health.
This silent cancer of negative emotions barricade us towards a positive realm and restraint we are to these malicious emotions.
Mal’s work concentrates on expelling the above life’s deteriorating patterns and subjected conditions through the art of female ejaculation. He is able to peel away the layers of negative emotion leaving only positive ones. His body work approach differs individual to individual as there are different situational factors involved. At the end of his treatment most clients walks out liberated, feather light. and expectant of the next day.
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